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I lit my first Shabbat candle at the age of 26, i.e. 2 months ago. It was the 6th anniversary of my grandmother’s death and I wanted that night to feel special. Someone suggested that I light a Shabbat candle, for myself, my beloved and in my grandmother’s memory. I liked the idea, as I thought that it was an easy gesture, which carried significant meaning.

I am (French) Jewish but I have a very secular life. I’m always interested in Jewish practices but I don’t necessarily apply them to my lifestyle. When I lit the candle and recited the blessing, I found myself spiritually connected to my beloved and in relation to G-d. It was a profound moment of inner serenity. I never thought it could feel this way. Also, especially since I live far away from my family and friends, I feel the need to express my belonging to the Jewish community. And when I think of all the Jewish women lighting the Shabbat candles all over the world, it warms up my heart.

Now each week I look forward to seeing the shining Shabbat flame. I have registered on www.fridaylight.org and I get the candle lighting time each week by email. My mum also registered from France. I think that this website is amazing and I encourage all Jewish women to visit it more often!